Here are some screenshots of my Telegram conversations with Luke Wenke from late 2020, when his Ryan obsession really started spiralling out-of-control. I have more screenshots than what’s currently featured on this page (as well as better quality screenshots) and am currently working to dig them up and put them in order.
Why am I sharing my Telegram conversations with Luke Wenke?
As I’ve stated in other articles on this website, Luke Wenke has gone to great lengths in his efforts to depict me as a complete lowlife who lacks credibility. Also as I’ve stated previously, I’m not too worried about anyone who matters believing anything he says about me, because most rational, sane people understand that Luke Wenke baselessly smears others because he doesn’t have a leg to stand on. But this situation is exceeding my bullshit tolerance, and it feels good to put the truth out there after living in constant fear for 3+ years.
Luke Wenke: “Nothing Bad Will Happen to Me”
This was just one of several occasions when Luke Wenke mentioned the idea of suing his romantic obsession’s (Ryan’s) family for emotional distress. His argument? That the family (and Ryan’s defence attorney) inflicted emotional suffering on Wenke by “keeping him and Ryan apart.”
If you have even a partial brain, you’ve probably figured out that Ryan clearly wanted nothing to do with Wenke. I think Wenke came up with any explanation possible to avoid facing this reality. I don’t usually try to figure out what goes on inside his mind, but I think his refusal to accept that Ryan doesn’t want him is either the most extreme case of denial or the most extreme case of delusion I’ve ever witnessed. During these conversations, it felt more like denial because I could tell that he was deliberately ignoring anything I said that challenged his fantasy, er, narrative about him and Ryan riding off into the sunset together.
Pre-North Carolina
In December 2020, Luke Wenke convinced himself that Ryan was going to be released from jail/prison within days. He was 100 percent sure of this, despite lacking a logical basis for this belief, and he got ALL PUMPED UP in anticipation of Ryan’s release. When I challenged Wenke (i.e. “what if he isn’t released?”), he shut me down as usual, only to message me at a later point in time in the throes of a meltdown because Ryan wasn’t released. But hey, Luke Wenke knows everything and is smarter than everyone, especially stupid old me!
North Carolina
After convincing himself that Ryan was going to be released from jail/prison in late 2020, Luke Wenke hurriedly made plans to travel down south – first to South Carolina, where he would visit a female friend of Ryan’s. After spending a few days in Charleston, Wenke planned to drive to Ryan’s family’s residence in North Carolina and show up unannounced at their home.
This instantly concerned me, because it was plainly evident that Ryan’s family wanted to be left alone. As you’ll see at some point throughout these Telegram conversations, Luke Wenke told me that he planned to park down the road from the family’s house and send Ryan’s female friend to the door. To me, it sounded like he knew the family didn’t want to see him, and it seemed like a planned ambush. Normal people who are welcome at someone’s home simply go to the door and knock or ring the doorbell. They don’t hide out of sight while having someone go to the door in their stead.
After learning of this plan, I began brainstorming ways to warn the family. I’ve never met them, and I didn’t want to scare them. They were already being stalked and harassed by Wenke, and I didn’t want to add to whatever stress that might’ve been causing. While I tried thinking of a tactful and respectful way to alert them to Wenke’s planned unannounced visit, I tried gathering as much information as possible.
End of 2020 Fight
Luke Wenke got mad at me for asking a lot of questions about his plans to visit Ryan’s family, presumably because he hates accountability, or perhaps because he knew, deep down, that his presence was likely unwanted. Who knows. But he got fussy when I pushed him a little too hard for his liking, and this was the last time we would talk for nearly a year.
After telling Luke Wenke some truths about himself, I reached out to someone who I knew could warn Ryan’s family about Wenke’s planned visit. To this day, I have no idea if he showed up (I do know he drove there months later, but I don’t know what ended up happening during this specific trip). But if he was on his way to my residence and someone was in a position to warn me, I sure hope they would.
It felt extremely good to send the following message, even though I paid for it by becoming the target of his next Twitter smear campaign.
